Planning or attending events in Nigeria whether it's a wedding, concert, owambe, or conference can be exciting, but it also comes with its fair share of wahala (trouble). From misplaced phones and handbags to gate drama and Nigerian Time syndrome (late arrivals), it’s important to know how to handle the unexpected. Here's a guide to help you stay calm, prepared, and in control.

1. Dealing with Lost Items

At crowded Nigerian events, things go missing faster than jollof rice at a buffet. Here’s what to do if you lose something:

Stay Calm, Think Fast: Retrace your steps immediately. Did you last have your phone at the photo booth? Or your purse on your table? The sooner you realize something’s missing, the better your chances of finding it.

Notify Event Staff or Security: Most events, especially big ones, have ushers, bouncers, or security personnel. Let them know what you lost. If it’s a corporate or ticketed event, check if there’s a lost and found point.

Use Social Media or Group Chats: If it's a public event like a concert or a popular wedding, post on Instagram or X (formerly Twitter) with hashtags. For smaller events, check the WhatsApp group or broadcast your message. Nigerians are surprisingly helpful online.

Pro Tip: Label your belongings. A phone wallpaper with your contact info or a tag inside your bag can save you stress if a good Samaritan finds it.

2. Arriving Late? Here’s What to Do

Let’s be honest, "Nigerian Time" is a thing. Many events don’t start exactly on time, but some do and getting there late can mess things up.

Always Confirm the Actual Start Time: Call someone involved or already there. Some planners now strictly follow time to avoid hall fees and security issues.

Be Honest at the Gate: If you arrive late and the program has started, politely explain to the ushers or security. Don’t argue or create a scene especially at formal events or ticketed ones.

Plan Ahead for Traffic: Lagos traffic is no joke, and even cities like Abuja or Port Harcourt have their surprises. Always leave earlier than expected.

Dress Ready: If you can’t make it early to change at the venue, dress up from home. Owambe wait for no one.

3. Entry Wahala: What to Do if You’re Denied Entry

Sometimes, despite all your plans, you find yourself stuck at the gate. Here's how to handle it:

Have Proof of Invitation or Ticket: Screenshot your invite, RSVP confirmation, or ticket QR code. Event staff are less likely to listen if you say “I know the bride” without proof.

Call a Contact Inside: Know someone inside? A bridesmaid, organizer, or friend? Call or message them to help you get in. Nigerians are all about connection, and this might save you.

Stay Polite & Respectful: Even if you’re frustrated, avoid shouting or causing drama. Gate bouncers won't budge for noise-makers. Calm, respectful explanation goes a long way.

Bonus Tips for Staying Safe and Organized

Use a Crossbody Bag or Small Purse: Harder to misplace and safer in crowds.

Take Photos of Your Valuables: In case you need to describe them later.

Avoid Overloading Yourself: Holding food, drinks, phone, and gifts all at once is asking for trouble.

Stay Aware of Your Surroundings: Especially at open events or crowded parties.

Conclusion 

Events in Nigeria are vibrant, loud, and full of energy—but things don’t always go as planned. Whether it’s a lost phone, arriving late, or getting stuck at the gate, staying calm, prepared, and connected can save your day.